more pri school frens
yest i met up with 3 pri school frens whom i've lost contact with after psle 8 yrs ago...man its been soooooo...long....
when ellen called me yest telling me she managed to get into contact with qing jun...i was really shocked, amazed, surprised, bewildered...hahaha....
not cos i had a crush on him or anythng but cos he is one fella whom everyone was afraid of, hated, shunned away from since pri school...he was a bully since pri school!! imagine that!
but i wasn't afriad of him or anything...there was just something about him that i couldn't really express...
i don't hate him, nor like him...but its not neutral either...in fact its like a special feeling...he is the rebellious, mischievious kid...all teachers nightmare and most classmates horror. (this is not an overstatement)
i had been a victim of his tricks...but i never hated him or disliked him for that...it just makes me want to know him more...to understand him for who he is...maybe i even respected him...
before meeting up at coffee bean...ellen told me how he's all grown up, and tall and built...to the extent that she called him a gorilla!!
so i was anxious and eager...so full of anticipation...wondering whether i'll recognise him at all...
but upon meeting him...i guess i was a bit disappointed...ellen really exaggerated lor!!! yea he is horribly built now (he was really scrawny back in school) but not to the extent of a "gorilla" la...maybe its cos he is not very tall...so the disappointment vanished almost immediately when i start talking to him...
it was a pleasant conversation....it was like getting to know him all over again...we conversed in chinese, and although the good part of the conversation was him telling me wat happened for the past 8 yrs...it was really interesting!
it was colourful...albeit a painful one...not one that i can really understand nor empathise with...but i'm glad i got the chance to hear it from him =)
and of course i met up with 2 other frens...whom i hardly...really hardly talked to...in fact i couldn't picture them in my mind based on their names!!! haha...but it was nice meeting them...they didn't really change...
of the whole lot yest....jun yan transformed the most!!...from the short scrawny nerdy kid to a fashionable young man...though he's still skinny....hahaha...no offence =)
it was a great evening...we jus talked and joked...reminiscing on how qing jun used to bully us...but it was all good natured jokes...
i'm looking forward to our next gathering... (^_^)